Husband.si
Become the husband you want to be
Marriage coaching built for men. Evidence-based Gottman and attachment frameworks translated into practical, actionable steps you can put to work today - no feelings lectures, no judgment.
No card required · $9/mo Plus · $99/mo Premium
What you get
Everything Husband.si gives you
Situation Analyzer
Describe any marriage conflict or moment and get a Gottman-informed breakdown of what's really happening and what to do next.
Communication Role-Play
Practice hard conversations with an AI coach before you have them - get feedback on tone, timing, and word choice she'll actually hear.
Daily Micro-Actions
Small, specific actions each day - a two-minute check-in, a repair attempt, a bid for connection - that compound into real change.
Progress Dashboard
Track streaks, completed actions, and skill growth over time so you can see your marriage improving like any other goal.
Evidence-Based Frameworks
Gottman Method and attachment theory distilled into plain frameworks designed for how men learn and implement change.
Go deeper
Gottman Method and Attachment Frameworks
The core frameworks Coach Grant draws on to turn marriage science into daily action.
The Four Horsemen and Their Antidotes
- Criticism — Attacking character instead of the issue. Antidote: a gentle, specific startup.
- Contempt — Sarcasm, eye-rolling, mockery - the single biggest predictor of divorce. Antidote: build a culture of appreciation.
- Defensiveness — Deflecting blame instead of hearing the complaint. Antidote: take some responsibility, even a little.
- Stonewalling — Shutting down and withdrawing. Antidote: self-soothe, then re-engage after a real break.
Sound Relationship House
- Love Maps — Knowing her inner world - stresses, hopes, current worries - in real detail.
- Fondness and Admiration — Actively noticing and voicing what you respect and appreciate about her.
- Turning Toward — Responding to small bids for attention and connection instead of ignoring them.
- Shared Meaning — Building rituals, goals, and values you both create together over time.
Attachment Styles Under Stress
- Secure — Comfortable with closeness and conflict; communicates needs directly.
- Anxious — Fears disconnection, may pursue or over-communicate when feeling distant.
- Avoidant — Values independence, tends to withdraw or minimize when conflict rises.
- Disorganized — Wants closeness but fears it, often swinging between pursuing and pulling away.
Pricing
Simple plans that grow with you
Plus
$9/mo
- ✓Unlimited coaching conversations
- ✓Daily micro-action plan
- ✓Situation analyzer
- ✓Progress tracking
Premium
$99/mo
- ✓Everything in Plus
- ✓Communication role-play coach
- ✓Personalized marriage improvement program
- ✓Priority responses
- ✓Deep-dive Gottman skill modules